{"id":30,"date":"2010-07-30T20:41:54","date_gmt":"2010-07-30T20:41:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/?p=30"},"modified":"2010-07-30T21:14:44","modified_gmt":"2010-07-30T21:14:44","slug":"%e2%80%9ci-love-the-lord-but-i-hate-offering%e2%80%9d","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/?p=30","title":{"rendered":"\u00e2\u20ac\u0153I love the Lord, but I hate offering\u00e2\u20ac\u009d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/black_church1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-31\" title=\"black_church1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/black_church1-300x165.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"165\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/black_church1-300x165.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/black_church1.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The Black church has been very influential in the history of the African American community. It served as a place of praise, worship and refuge to its members. Pastors were life and marriage counselors, providers and mentors. The Black Church was everything black people needed to help them get closer to GOD and eventually make something out of themselves during hard times. Blacks could meet and greet without trouble. Well, those days are long gone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Things have changed! With high divorce rates, increases in Black on Black crime and declining community involvement, it is obvious that even though many people still attend church, they are not benefiting from them as they used to. How did this happen? Somewhere along the way, it became more popular to do what feels good rather than to do what is right. \u00c2\u00a0Sinful urges, are no longer suppressed. With the increase in teen pregnancy, the youth do not understand the concept of \u00e2\u20ac\u0153following God\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s word.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Is it the churches fault? When talking about the youth, some would say it falls in the parents hands but, the community as a whole struggles to live by the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153word.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 I must agree that it is hard to take Church seriously. Whether it is that commercial, your pastor was in where he\/she promoted a new local restaurant or a simple observation of their lavish lifestyle. It is hard to trust their motives. The media does not help either. It seems like every year there is a big story on embezzlement or adultery going on in the church\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 It is to the point that the common joke about black preachers is their constant pleading for money. The phrase, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153church is a business\u00e2\u20ac\u009d has made a mockery of the church. Take a look our predominantly black films that feature the black church. Most of which are comedies. They always portray the pastor of the black church as a shady, money hungry, hustler type of character. No matter how you look at it, the church has a bad name. It is to the point you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t know where your money is going. How often have you seen a church\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s pastor live in better conditions than 90% of the members! Have you ever noticed your pastors fancy car and luxurious house and wonder how he\/she is able to afford that? It is to the point, most people \u00e2\u20ac\u0153love the Lord, but hate Offering\u00e2\u20ac\u009d\u00c2\u00a0because\u00c2\u00a0of the pastors constant begging. Members get tired of offering baskets constantly being passed throughout the congregation. Even though all these things occur, it is not our place to criticize the church.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 My theory is that the decline in community morals does not have anything to do with the church. The pastor and its members should not be the reason you attend. \u00c2\u00a0In retrospection, if you had expectations for the churches members before you got there, then you already failed. Never put your faith in man. You are there for one reason and one reason only, to praise God and get closer to the Lord. That is your mission. I personally pick my place of praise by how the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153word\u00e2\u20ac\u009d is taught, and how much knowledge I was able to gain after the sermon was over. No matter how times have changed, the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153good book\u00e2\u20ac\u009d always remains the same. Learn those principals and stick to them. Stand tall for what really matters. If you notice, almost every pastor that is caught for doing something wrong, will more than likely say something like, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m only human, and I make mistakes just like the rest of you\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6\u00e2\u20ac\u009d There is a 100% chance he was right! Just because he holds a certain position, does not make him immune to temptation\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 It is not up to us to judge him, stick to the plan and focus on WE need to do to get closer to the Lord.<\/strong><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Black church has been very influential in the history of the African American community. It served as a place of praise, worship and refuge to its members. Pastors were life and marriage counselors, providers and mentors. 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