{"id":39,"date":"2010-08-16T23:05:33","date_gmt":"2010-08-16T23:05:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/?p=39"},"modified":"2010-08-16T23:27:26","modified_gmt":"2010-08-16T23:27:26","slug":"%e2%80%9cdaddy%e2%80%99s-little-girl%e2%80%9d","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/?p=39","title":{"rendered":"\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Daddy\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Little Girl\u00e2\u20ac\u009d"},"content":{"rendered":"

This post is inspired by Montana Fishburne aka \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Chippy D\u00e2\u20ac\u009d (Laurence Fishburne\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s daughter). She has recently made news headlines with her decision to be become a porn star. You can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t help but feel sorry for Laurence Fishburne. Can you imagine how you would feel if your 18 year old daughter was the talk of the nation for her \u00e2\u20ac\u0153performance\u00e2\u20ac\u009d in a porn movie? I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m sure many fathers are hanging their head in shame and disbelief.\"\"<\/a>
\nThe humiliation doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t stop there, she recently spoke out on her decision to do pornography. She told People Magazine, “It’s something I always wanted to do. I have always been comfortable in my body and with my sexuality.” She is only 18! So this comment confirms she has been practicing in the bedroom for quite some time now.
\nThis whole ordeal has lead me, a father of a 3 year old girl, to worry if I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m raising my child the best way possible. What do I do to keep my child away from that life? Just like Chris Rock (comedian) said… \u00e2\u20ac\u0153my job is to keep my daughter off the pole”
\nWe all know the essentials, show your child love, attention and guidance. Those three components are easier said than done. I mean do we know that\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s all it takes? Raising a lady in \u00e2\u20ac\u0153modern society\u00e2\u20ac\u009d is tougher than it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s ever been. It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s hard to teach your daughter to cover up and be \u00e2\u20ac\u0153lady-like\u00e2\u20ac\u009d when the latest fashions for girl clothing show off as much flesh as possible. There is a new way for women to get attention too. Media sources have made celebrities out of all kinds of classless women. I mean, how many sex-tapes have turned average girls into celebrities? How many times will we see these women become famous for being Tramps? Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian are the front-runners for that movement. Karrine Steffans has started another trend that has helped groupies become \u00e2\u20ac\u0153stars.\u00e2\u20ac\u0153 How? Through \u00e2\u20ac\u0153kiss and tell\u00e2\u20ac\u009d, sleeping with celebrities and then blogging on the internet about the details of your encounter. It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Ho take-over!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d
\nSo, how do you keep your daughter off the pole? Harsher punishments and more strict rules? That\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not the answer because most kids who are sheltered grow up to become wild\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 so, what is the answer? No one has a real answer for that because every child is different. But, there are general guidelines that should help fathers raise their daughters correctly.
\nFrom what I have observed, it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s all up to us as parents. You can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t sit back and have the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153They are going to do what they want regardless of what I say\u00e2\u20ac\u009d approach. We must make sure that our children see, experience, and live with healthier influences. Whether we like it or not, children learn from what we do, not from what we say. It is important to teach your daughter to embrace imperfections, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t be ashamed of what you see in the mirror. Being in a healthy, loving relationship yourself will help your daughter to expect the same when it’s her turn to select a partner. I think it’s also important for girls to have other women to look up to. Help her to find strong, successful women she admires (other than her mom, of course). Let them try different things. Let her participate in other activities. Don’t limit her to traditional “girly” toys and activities. If she wants to try boxing or football, let her go for it. As far as discipline goes, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m a firm believer in \u00e2\u20ac\u0153spare the rod, spoil the child.\u00e2\u20ac\u0153\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 A lot of people abuse that method and use it for control. If It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s used improperly, the child will not understand the purpose of spankings and it only teaches them violence.
\nLet her be herself in any environment. With boys, it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s easy. You just keep them busy and enforce \u00e2\u20ac\u0153wrap it up\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and go to college. With girls, you need to be very, very delicate!
\nNo matter what, make sure you spend solo time with your daughter. Bond with her on different levels. Let her know that you are more than just a \u00e2\u20ac\u0153sperm donor\u00e2\u20ac\u009d or \u00e2\u20ac\u0153bank account.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d Show her that she can come to your for advise even though you are her parent. It may help you get to know her better and recognize the things that make her unique.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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This post is inspired by Montana Fishburne aka \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Chippy D\u00e2\u20ac\u009d (Laurence Fishburne\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s daughter). She has recently made news headlines with her decision to be become a porn star. You can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t help but feel sorry for Laurence Fishburne. Can you imagine how you would feel if your 18 year old daughter was the talk of the<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blacksenses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}